The Anatomy of a Guy and A Lot of Girls: My Version

              And so the previous post told you about my story. Now this post will be about my opinion about some common characteristics about these kinds of guys that I know of, and some you have probably seen.

Siwon(He is just my physical sample)
Photo: http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lszbzsKuD41qgmc9y.jpg

              First and most importantly, this guys has got the looks. Oh yes, this guy has the face to make you look at him not only once, not twice, but a third or more. Paired with charisma, and you have a ladies' man.

              That Killer Smile. Every guy worthy of charming a lot of girls has a particular smile that just makes hearts skip a beat or melts them then and there. This smile is so natural that you can't help smiling back, and sometimes feeling like you're the only one he looks at when he smiles.

              The Body Walk. The way a guy carries himself is telltale sign of how manly they are. Some guys walk a tad bit too tough and end up looking intimidating, but a charmer walks straight and tall, with a comfortable ease that is neither too rigid or too loose, exuding just enough male aura for others to notice.

            The Body. Obvious physical strength and muscle is just what is needed here.

            The Face. Depending on what you like, this guy is an example of the word handsome.

Characteristics:

             On a positive note, some guys are naturally born with these qualities, and they cannot help attracting attention and gaining likes from girls. A lot of them do not mind so much about their looks and are turning themselves into gentlemen.

             On the negative side, a lot of guys tend to take their good looks for granted. A lot develop their looks and charisma from a change in their personality. They change themselves to look cool, but this should not be overly done.
Furthermore, along with their handsome, angelic faces come with it a tall pride. They tend to think too highly of themselves, thinking that society will always accept them because of their looks. They are confident of having and charming a lot of girls. Some even live with the knowledge that others will always wait on them and adjust to them, because of what they think about themselves. They content themselves with the false belief that people will always chase after them, which is not a good thing at all. These guys often have a lot of friends, and they might not care in losing one or two of them.


Just an advice ladies.
      When guys like these happen to appear in your life and somehow make you feel used, then always remember your worth and what you deserve. You forget it sometimes, but know that you are a worthy and precious person. You do not deserve to be a second choice. Some bad guys often find gratification in having girls chasing them, so don't fall into that trap. Be strong and show him you are certainly happy without him. It is your job to protect yourself, especially your feelings where it is most vulnerable.